Life partners love you just the way you are

Life partners love you just the way you are
This article was written and endorsed by the psychologist Raquel Aldana
· September 27, 2015
     

                   

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 the words they achieve express. They are an essential part of your team, your nights and your days, your thoughts, your emotions, your dreams and your sleep.

Life partners are more than being passionate lovers or engaged couples; It is love without excuses or swings, is accepted, is to help grow, walk hand in hand for life and feel full of love.

A life partner means being the best mattress for falls. A coat for the winter. . The sun and the stars, a sky full of vitality.

-You love Me?

-Yes.

-Until where?

-To the defects.
                                               

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 The beauty of such a love is the conjunction, forming an emotional home, a place where there is nothing more beautiful than the two united. That is to say, it could be said that the love mate is the love of the square, that to which almost all of us aspire and in which commitment, passion and friendship are intermingled.

We can not love half, we can not "not love" a part of our partner, because if we do not do it in its totality we are not loving anything. This does not mean that there are not things we dislike, but after all essence is what we need to love to do it fully.


  tell you that is where I sit to think about you. I love you like to hear your laughter all night. I love you like never to let you go.

-Jaime Sabines, Mexican poet-

Loving is an art based honesty
Loving is an art that requires patience, care, discipline, responsibility and commitment. It is a game of silence, knowledge, respect, freedom, trust and delivery. Even with everything, letting yourself be loved is complicated.

                                               

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Honesty must not only be in the feeling towards the other, but in the love towards oneself, in acceptance and in our ability to reinvent ourselves every day.

To achieve this we have to be able to reinvent ourselves and overcome our difficulties. We have to respect our rhythms, know our needs, flow with attachment, get rid of expectations, be generous and forgive. Only then will we be able to be life partners.

Being a perfect couple, a job of two
Being a perfect couple is not having problems, but knowing how to overcome them together. We have to get angry, throw the stuff at our heads, impose ourselves, compete, judge, fall into error, take a breath, count to ten and let go of that which torments us.

Reaching the degree of life partners requires breaking down old walls and healing the wounds of our emotional past. To believe in love you have to believe in yourself first, hold on to the present, collect motives, fight and achieve the desire.

                                           

We must take special care that each one travels his way, in accepting our limits and loving our difficulties. We have to "let ourselves be", become a good love, have the audacity to take off our armor to accept and appreciate our own vulnerability.

"The true goal of existence,
It does not consist in loving,
neither does it consist in letting yourself be loved.
It consists simply and simply
in becoming love. "

-Thomas Schied-